Saya berkunjung ke Singapura sudah berkali-kali. Setiap kali ke sana saya rasa amat sedih melihatkan keadaan sebuah negara yang pernah mendaulatkan Islam sebagai agamanya dan Melayu sebagai pemerintahnya. Kini, keadaan amat berubah dengan Melayu hidup bagai terpinggir oleh deru arus pembangunanan yang hanya dikerumini oleh bangsa pendatang. Benarlah lirik lagu yang pernah diharamkan di Malaysia yang berbunyi,
"Nenek moyang kaya raya,
tergadai seluruh harta benda,
akibat sengketa sesamalah kita,
bumi dipijak milik orang"
Mungkinkah perkara ini akan berulang di Malaysia pula suatu hari nanti. Di Singapura sekarang ni, nak mencari makanan halal dah hampir sama macam berada di Colombo Sri Lanka. Maksudnya, tak susah sangat seperti ketika di Tokyo, Amsterdam, Paris, Hanoi dan lain-lain, tapi dah jadi macam kategori negara orang bukan Islam seperti Sri Lanka, Kemboja, Saigon di Vietnam dan lain-lain sedangkan dulunya tak macam tu langsung.
Bila balik ke Kuala Lumpur, ketika berkunjung ke The Curve, Pavillion, The Garden, terasa sangat bahawa satu hari nanti kita mungkin jadi macam tu juga. Bukan sahaja dari segi kemodenan prasarananya tetapi juga dari segi terpinggirnya nilai Melayu dan Islam yang asal.
Semalam saya, isteri dan anak-anak berkunjung ke Pavillion. Perut semakin lapar lalu kami berkunjung ke food courtnya yang juga dikenali sebagai Food Republic. Pemilik Food Republic ini berbangsa cina dari Singapura bernama Dr George Quek. Beliau memiliki rantaian food court dengan jenama "Food Republic" di Singapura dan Malaysia.
Pada penglihatan saya, saya adalah satu-satunya yang memakai kopiah di kepala. Saya juga sempat membuat statistik secara rawak melihatkan cara pemakaian perempuan Melayu di tempat itu. Sudah tentunya saya definisikan Melayu hanya melalui pandagan mata saya semata-mata (naked eye). Saya dapati hanya 1 dari 10 memakai tudung, 1:30 dari yang memakai tudung, memakai pakaian Islam sempurna, 4:5 memakai pakaian menjolok mata, Di samping itu, sempat juga saya perhatikan berapa orang yang menoleh kearah saya kehairanan mungkin kerana saya memakai kopiah - iaitu setiap 4 orang.
Makanan halal - cuma 1 dari 5 peniaga makanan memaparkan tanda halal. Pada pandangan saya, 3 dari 5 kelihatan tidak halal atau meragukan. Oleh itu, cuma 33% dari peniagaan yang kelihatan halal yang memaparkan tanda halal.
Minuman - Ketika memesan minuman di kaunter minuman, saya sengaja cuba menguji dengan memesan di dalam bahasa Melayu. Maklum balas yang saya terima ialah menyedihkan. Kalau air "sour sop" tidak difahami sebagai "durian belanda", tak mengapa, tetapi kalau sampai air tebu hanya tahu dikenali sebagai "sugar cane", ini kes berat.
Dengan statistik keyakinan makanan halal, kefasihan bahasa, pemilikan peniaagaan makanan, pemilikan tempat makan, budaya pemakaian pakaian dikalangan kaum perempuan, senario yang melihat pemakaian kopiah sebagai pelik, nampaknya tak mustahil Malaysia juga akan jadi seperti Singapura.
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When two old friends with same name met...
| Mom, Hajah Zainab Haji Hassan, 79, cherishing moment with her long lost friend, Hajah Zainab Wan Ibrahim,77 (on wheel chair) |
She was so excited about the visit which we did in the next day. She was really looking forward to the visit and expecting her friend is being taken good care of looking from the photo seen in yesterday newspaper. She told us that the friend was a great grandchild of Johore 9th Mentri Besar Dato' Wan Idris and was well to do. The father, Wan Ibrahim loved her very much and that she was so cute and pretty. Both her and my mom, were also very closed to sisters Rahah and Suhaila who then married the then Dato' Abd Razak Hussein and Dato' Hussin Onn respectively when both were living in that same small town. Hajah Zainab used to work for Jabatan Telekom Malaysia (Malaysian Telecom Department and then Telekom Malaysia.
The trip was not so nice as the location was actually quite far and remote. My mom and us were thinking the place should not be like a normal old folks home considering her background. This was actually me and my wife's first visit to an old folks home but at least we could imagine how it looks like based on what shown in the local TV programs.
When we reach the place, we were told to go Dorm D as she is located there. We then discover that Dorm D is actually meant for more critical case. The Zainab(s) then folded into each other arms and started chatting about old memories while exchanging photo.
| Mom and Hajah Zainab seen exchanging photos |
Not all living there are old folks, some are mentally not stable patience, some others are individuals who no longer needed by their family and relatives as they were considered burden even at young age - as young as 45. One of them is a smart educated Indian lady who were left there by her relatives as the husband deserted her due to her ilness caused by tumor. She who is now paralyzed was not visited by anybody for quite a while according to her chat with my wife. This english speaking lady said that they were not really treated that well here eventhough there was no serious abuse by the workers.
The mix with mental illness people has caused the workers treating all the same way. As a result both the unfortunate unwanted individuals and the old folks were emotionally stress. She said, only her and Hajah Zainab are in better mental stage as they have very strong faith in God. The Indian Christian lady also admitted she respected Hajah Zainab's endurance in facing her faith.
| Hajah Zainab gathering strength in showing her hospitality in waving good bye to her visitor. A sorrow moment indeed. |
I retract my memory about the writing of the same yesterday newspaper mentioning that a mother can take care of 12 children but 12 children may not be able to do the same old mother. I pray hard to Allah that me and my 11 siblings will not be the 12 children mentioned in the newspaper.
Leaving Hajah Zainab Wan Ibrahim behind indeed was a very sorrow moment in my life, looking at the old lady waving her hand towards us and I am very sure her hope is for us to come back to pay another visit. Oh Allah! Pardon them of all their wrongdoings and let them be in peace.
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