Love of Eagle Mom Makes The Eaglet Fly

The Love of Eagle Mom, Makes the Eaglet Fly

The love of eagle mom, makes the eaglet fly
Not cowardness of love, will only causes them die.
Feeding the nest, in daylight till dark sky
Cradle them spoil, like a baby blue eye
Singing them comfort, with lullaby
Won’t make them survive, with strong bone and thigh 
Unable to standout, always hide and shy
At the end, they all will only sing sigh
Too late to tweak, the most they would cry.

The love of eagle mom, makes the eaglet fly
Before the old one saying goodbye
wakeup from dreaming, ignorant to realise
Spoiling the young one thought it was wise
Please never ever living in denial
They came to us from God for trial
Resisting reality is surely futile
Pampering the kids surely inutile
I'm not making claims or even accuses
Dont spoil your kids, never refuses
Else you would end your young, like those losers
Nobody to help when they got bruises

The love of eagle mom, makes the eaglet fly
Brave and bright, soaring the sky
Comprehend the reason, parent did why
Not for hatred, but for the success lie
So that he could one day, roaming & soaring the sky
Even when the parent, won’t be there to see
You can be sure they would proud to be
Looking at their offspring able to stand
No longer need support no longer need hand
So that is the very reason why
Love of eagle mom, makes the eaglet fly

By Seeheart Founder, 13 September 2017

Hati-hati membiarkan anak-anak menonton program TV kartun dan remaja

Hati2 dalam membiarkan anak2 menonton program2 TV barat walaupun program2 itu adalah kartun dan bercorak kanak2 atau remaja. Ada diantara program kartun Inggeris yg menggunakan bahasa2 yg tidak sesuai utk kanak2. Bagi remaja program2 spt kehidupan disekolah antaranya yg paling popular ialah "High School Musical".

Secara umumnya, tiada apa yg perlu dirisaukan kerana msgnya ialah ttg bersikap jujur, bercakap benar, kasih sayang dsgbnya. Yg dirisaukan bukan hanya message cerita tetapi juga propaganda mereka dalam cara menjalani kehidupan, cara bertutur, cara berpakaian, cara menyusun perasaan, cara menggayakan diri malah setiap aspek kehidupan bagi setiap peringkat umur sehingga cara menjalin cinta, cara merenung mata dsbgnya sehingga mengundang maksiat.

Kajian menunjukkan pengulangan babak2 ini mampu mempengaruhi penonton menjadi sebahagian dari babak sehingga menzahirkan dlm kehidupan harian. Motif mereka ialah bukan sahaja mengubah dan mencorak cara berfikiran dan menjalani kehidupan anak2 anda malah untuk menjadikan watak dan pemain watak ini sebagai idola mereka di dalam dan diluar set pengambaran sehingga sunnah mereka menjadi ikutan dalam segala segi.

Mungkin shj ada diantara ibubapa yg mengatakan mengapa tidak jika watak2 dan artis2 itu memberikan contoh yg baik. Memang ada perkara2 yg baik didalamnya spt yg dikatakan tadi sikap jujur, amanah, berkasih sayang, persahabatan, bercakap benar dsbgnya dan ada juga sebahagian artis2 utama yg digambarakan sbg berkeperibadian baik di dalam dan diluar set pengambaran yg boleh dijadikan contoh buat anak2. Tetapi sebahagian besar artis2 ini terutama artis2 perempuan yg dulunya kita katakan 'comel', kini telah melalui corak dan budaya kehidupan yg rosak yg biasanya dimulakan dgn pertukaran fesyen menjolok mata sehingga ramai yg sanggup sampai ketahap bogel.

Olsen Twin

Lindsay Lohan

Antara mereka, ialah Olsen twins, pasangan kembar kanak comel dlm TV series "Full House" dgn perubahan seksinya, Britney Spears yg memulakan kerjaya sbg pelakon kanak2 Disney yg comel kemudian penyanyi remaja sopan dan bijak ikutan ramai, Demi Lovato yg pernah membintangi siri Disney "Camp Rock" kanak yg menghormati dna menyayangi kedua org tuanya dan teman yg sgt sejati kini menghadapi masalah psikologi , Lindsay Lohan pelakon "The parent trap" yg digambarkan kanak2 sopan bertukar sbg penagih dadah, alkohol dan sex, Jenny Humphrey dari “Gossip Girl.” mengubah kpd imej seksi melampau, Hillary Duff pelakon dan penyanyi remaja yg digambarkan sbg remaja sopan yg membuat perubahan dgn gaya sgt seksinya bg membuat impact dlm imej

Hillary Duff

Britney Spears

 dewasanya dan terbaru Miley Cyrus dari sitkom Disney "Hannah Montana” seorang kanak2 dan kemudian remaja yg tegas, berprinsip, mentaati org tuannya kini bertukar menjadi sgt seksi dgn lagu & video terbarunya "Wrecking Ball" yg memberikn aksi bogel spenuhnya tanpa seurat benang juga bg memberikan maximum impact sbg imej baru jiwa dewasanya.

Miley Cyrus

Selena Gomes

Ada yg mempertahankan mereka, sbg mangsa kerana tekanan hidup di Hollywood tetapi mahu tidak mahu kerosakan akhlaq mereka walau apa pun puncanya boleh memberi implikasi buruk kepada generasi akan datang kita.

Jika sehingga sudah sampai ke tahap mengidolakan mereka ini, dikhuatiri, anak2 kita menjadi seperti ribuan anak2 org lain di Malaysia, menjadikan kehidupan artis2 pujaan mereka ini sbg sunnah hidup mereka sehingga membelakangkan ibubapa, agama, Allah dan rasulnya. Itulah hajat sebenar kuncu2 dajjal, yg sedang mempersiapkan umat manusia dgn cara hidup yg mengembirakan kedatangan dajjal.

Saya berpesan kpd diri saya sendiri dan kpd kesemua ibubapa agar berhati2 dgn fenomena ini agar 'bekalan' kita (ibubapa) utk ber"hijrah" ini, tidak mempersiakan kehidupan mereka, menjadikan 'bekalan' itu menjadi 'basi' begitu shj.

When two old friends with same name met...

Mom, Hajah Zainab Haji Hassan, 79, cherishing moment with her long lost friend, Hajah Zainab Wan Ibrahim,77 (on wheel chair)

My mom was reading a Malay newspaper when she saw a photo of a familiar face in one of the pages. Yes, it was her long lost friend. I got back from work that day and my wife pointed me towards my mom who was still staring at the photo of her friend. My mom looked so mournful and sorrow. I asked her who is the person in the photo..she slowly replied that was her long lost friend when both used to live in the same small town. I offer her to pay a visit to her friend who was said to be living in an Old Folks home in Kuala Kubu Bharu.

She was so excited about the visit which we did in the next day. She was really looking forward to the visit and expecting her friend is being taken good care of looking from the photo seen in yesterday newspaper. She told us that the friend was a great grandchild of Johore 9th Mentri Besar Dato' Wan Idris and was well to do. The father, Wan Ibrahim loved her very much and that she was so cute and pretty. Both her and my mom, were also very closed to sisters Rahah and Suhaila who then married the then  Dato' Abd Razak Hussein and Dato' Hussin Onn respectively when both were living in that same small town. Hajah Zainab used to work for Jabatan Telekom Malaysia (Malaysian Telecom Department and then Telekom Malaysia.

The trip was not so nice as the location was actually quite far and remote. My mom and us were thinking the place should not be like a normal old folks home considering her background. This was actually me and my wife's first visit to an old folks home but at least we could imagine how it looks like based on what shown in the local TV programs.

When we reach the place, we were told to go Dorm D as she is located there. We then discover that Dorm D  is actually meant for more critical case. The Zainab(s) then folded into each other arms and started chatting about old memories while exchanging photo.

Mom and Hajah Zainab seen exchanging photos

Her life there was not exactly as what we expected. She only enjoy RM250 from her pensions. Not having any children makes life so lonely as nobody visited her other that her late sister's son. He lives in Section 3 Shah Alam bringing some food once in a while.

Not all living there are old folks, some are mentally not stable patience, some others are individuals who no longer needed by their family and relatives as they were considered burden even at young age - as young as 45. One of them is a smart educated Indian lady who were left there by her relatives as the husband deserted her due to her ilness caused by tumor. She who is now paralyzed was not visited by anybody for quite a while according to her chat with my wife. This english speaking lady said that they were not really treated that well here eventhough there was no serious abuse by the workers.

The mix with mental illness people has caused the workers treating all the same way. As a result both the unfortunate unwanted individuals and the old folks were emotionally stress. She said, only her and Hajah Zainab are in better mental stage as they have very strong faith in God. The Indian Christian lady also admitted she respected Hajah Zainab's endurance in facing her faith.

Hajah Zainab gathering strength in showing her
hospitality in waving good bye to her visitor. A
sorrow moment indeed.

Hajah Zainab was however lucky as her nephew once in a while would take her out for several night to stay over at their home especially during Ramadhan and Hari Raya. While we were there, she keeps on finding things to offer me and my kids. She asked us to eat kuih bahulu (Malay cakes) which I don't really like but still took them as not to hurt her pure feelings. I admire her as she still have hospitality in entertaining her visitors at that condition.

I retract my memory about the writing of the same yesterday newspaper mentioning that a mother can take care of 12 children but 12 children may not be able to do the same old mother. I pray hard to Allah that me and my 11 siblings will not be the 12 children mentioned in the newspaper.

Leaving Hajah Zainab Wan Ibrahim behind indeed was a very sorrow moment in my life, looking at the old lady waving her hand towards us and I am very sure her hope is for us to come back to pay another visit. Oh Allah! Pardon them of all their wrongdoings and let them be in peace.